Art: Two-Sided Silhouette

"Untitled Silhouette" painting by Janet Gutierrez

Untitled Silhouette” by Janet Gutierrez (acrylic paint on repurposed canvas).

Lili’s 13-year-old sister Janet made this beautiful painting. Janet is an amazing, strong, kind person; it has been wonderful getting to know her and help support her. Janet and her sisters create awesome powerful art, and Janet also makes one-of-a-kind clothing and cosplay accessories.

Janet and her other two sisters Deborah and Ailinn continue to report being severely abused by their mother. Child Protective Services is involved, but does little more than give the mother a “stamp of approval” to further abuse her children.

We visit the children every week, and this is what we see (and what they tell us): they do not get fed, they do not get appropriate nutrition or physical health care, they live in filthy unclean conditions, they are psychologically tortured and bullied by their mother every day, they are isolated within their home and physically prevented from leaving, they are exposed to dangerous people (pedophiles, etc.), they do not get appropriate mental health support, they do not get any academic support, they do not get any emotional or personal support, and so much more. The children also report that their mother brutally bullies and harasses them late at night and early in the morning until they are too traumatized to go to school.

CPS has done nothing to address any of these issues, despite significant evidence from us, the children’s therapist and teachers, and the children themselves. Almost every day the children report more terrible things being done to them. The social workers accept the mother’s inconsistent lies and do not engage in adequate investigation to uncover even simple facts. (For example, she tells them she works as a landscaper, when in fact she doesn’t have a job and sleeps all day.) They even help the mother create excuses for school and doctors to explain why all of her children are missing school for months at a time.

Every day, Lili cries in silence for the torture that is killing her sisters (who are also like her daughters, since Lili’s mother has forced her children to provide all care for each other for many years)– and for her own powerlessness to stop it.

This piece depicts a silhouette with two faces, surrounded by a wonderfully-detailed “stained glass” effect in the background.

UPDATE #1: The children’s therapist filed a complaint to CPS regarding the social workers’ illegal and unprofessional actions. Within days the therapist received a call from CPS, informing her that the children were being removed from her therapy. This was the only response the therapist received regarding her official complaint. The children were then transferred against their will to a new CPS-paid therapist. The same worker is still assigned to the case, and the children report to us that the worker continues to engage in abusive and unprofessional behaviors. The children report that when they told their CPS worker they feel unsafe and want to keep their old therapist, the worker told them they were “being immature,” insulted them, and said she thought they were lying about being abused by their mother.

UPDATE #2: We successfully gained guardianship of the children, and they now live with us! CPS concluded “no evidence of wrongdoing,” but were still forced to take action because they could not deny that the children had not attended school for 7-18 months, lived in filth, had poor hygiene, were rapidly deteriorating with severe mental health struggles, and were continuing to say they were being abused. So the abusive mother got off scot-free, but the children are safely with us.

What Is Guerrilla Art?

Many articles will tell you guerrilla art is a form of “street art” based in graffiti that originated in the UK. Today I want to tell you: it can be so much more.

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Guerrilla Art: Speak

"Speak" painting by Lili Lopez

Guerrilla art against abuse: “Speak” by Lili Lopez (acrylic paint, glitter, glue).

Lili made “Speak” as a gift for her abused cousin. It is a reminder for her cousin to keep speaking up for herself, even if others won’t listen.

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Guerrilla Art: Eye See You

"We See You, and We Are Not Afraid" guerilla art by Lili Lopez

Guerrilla art against child abuse: “We See You, and We Are Not Afraid” by Lili Lopez (spray paint, permanent marker, and collage).

Lili made this artwork in support of her three younger sisters, who have been physically, sexually, and psychologically abused their whole lives– and still have to live with their worst abuser until they are at least 18 years old. The piece contains five portraits: the staring eyes of Lili, her three sisters, and me.

The artwork is a daily reminder to the children to be strong, unified, and protect their boundaries. It is also a message to their abusive mother that we are watching her. No matter how many lies she tells and how many things she gets away with, the five of us will always see the truth.

Lili and her sisters placed the piece in their mother’s apartment. It now hangs in the living room entranceway, directly opposite the front door.

UPDATE: After a lengthy struggle with Child Protective Services, we have become the children’s guardians. They now live with us, and this piece hangs in our dining room. 🙂

Art: Cosplay Gas Mask

For Halloween this year, Lili’s sister Deborah wanted an awesome gas mask to complete her “post-apocalyptic top hat gentleman” costume. Local stores had little to offer, so we decided to design our own mask from scratch.

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